Topping & Bottoming Resources



 Hi Queers!

Here are some useful tips, tricks, advice, and resources for all of your remaining topping and bottoming curiosity.

xo,

Brendan & Marissa


10 Tips for First Time Tops

Looking for the **secret** to be the best top you can be? Rise to the top of your game? Get your badge and become a qualified top gun. TOP. I think you get it.

Here are some quick tips and tricks from ACON’s Peer Education team that will get you topping those bottoms like a pro in no time.

How I Taught a Bottom to Top

Anything is possible with patience and Viagra.

Let’s Talk About (Queer) Sex: So You’re a Top/Bottom/Switch

Queer women are always down to really get into it about what we *mean* when we talk about ‘topping’ or ‘bottoming’ — so are we! Which is why we did an entire comprehensive survey of y’all on the topic just a couple years ago, doing the analysis on what y’all mean when you talk about tops, bottoms, switches, and more. 

Working on your strap-on skills

I have done a lot of research and picked up some tips on casually wearing the harness around the house, incorporating it into masturbation, what to do with it during sex for first time, researching via erotica, etc. which is great — bless the internet! I also happen to know that topping with a strap-on is a LOT of work. Aside from exercising in general (specifically core strength) how do I build stamina for the real deal? How do I practice without a partner? How do I avoid being at a complete loss the first time I whip it out with a lady?

How to Bottom: The Ultimate Guide to Bossing It as a Bottom

Want to know how to relax and enjoy the ride? We’re giving you our tips on how to bottom harder, better, faster, stronger — and honestly? Cozier.

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